The problem of teenagers’ nowadays….(people/value)

            Nowadays, the problem of today’s teens: drugs, drinking, dropping out, pregnancy, gangs, violence in the schools, sexually transmitted diseases, poverty, racism, running away, suicide, AIDS, illiteracy, truancy and many more.

                         Long time ago, students dropped out because of external causes: illness, employment, or the need to help at home. Today, personal frustration, failure, and fear are more likely to be contributing factors. No wonder by the years it seems increase rapidly.

            Another is violence and racism in school as primary concerns for the teenagers’ problems, Young people are sensitive to the public's perception of their age group. They resent generalizations suggesting all teens cause trouble.

             When outside of school, young people say and the biggest problem is that there's no place for them to go then they tend to choose something fun without thinking is it bad or good. If their children do something wrong, they get in trouble or if they do something good, parent don't say anything. With all the troubles teens face today, and the fear of their own peers, is it any wonder they want to skip school? What reasons do they give for being truant? When teens are truant, is it because they're feel the classes boring, and the teachers indifferent.  This is the problems that must be finding a solution immediately.

All the people should take care of the teenagers’ entire problem. They need our support to do something..

best friends (people)

Friends are the one person or more who are special in our life. Since we were young we used to have many friends whether best friends or closest friends. Without friends our life will typically bored, lonely and meaningless. Friends just like a diamond that we must appreciate them so much. However we must know how to choose the best friends for us so that we will be on the right track. Here is some tips how to appreciate our friendship.

1. Be Yourself

It may seem like a no-brainer, but a lot of teens struggle not to lose their identity once they become part of a group of friends. Though who you are is always changing, especially during your teenage years, some aspects of your personality will stay pretty much the same. Figure out what those things are and think hard about who you want to be, then present yourself honestly and genuinely to the people you hang around with.

Sometimes you're going to disagree or not be the most popular member of the group. However, you will always feel you've been true to yourself -- and that you haven't become somebody else's clone.

2. Avoid Gossip

Friends don't spread rumors about other friends -- even within their own group. If you've heard something shocking about someone you're friends with, find a considerate way of asking them about it personally.

If you're not sure how to talk to them about it, seek the advice of one other trusted friend, but don't let the discussion turn into a free-for-all about everything you don't like about the person. You certainly wouldn't be happy if someone did that to you, so set a good example for others -- and for yourself.

3. Defend Your Friends

At some point, somebody you're not tight with is going to question the integrity of one of your friends. It's important to find out both sides of the story in a situation like this, but it's also a good chance to show your friend that you have faith in them by standing up for their reputation. Whenever you can, be respectful of the other person's question or criticism but emphasize that your friend is a good person who deserves the respect of others, even when they make mistakes.

4. Protect Your Friends

When a friend of yours is making not-so-great decisions -- whether it's about drugs, alcohol, studying or dating -- do your best to look out for them. This doesn't mean telling them what to do constantly, but you can offer gentle advice and guidance from time to time.

If you give advice in a caring way that shows you value your friend and respect their feelings and wishes, they're much more likely to pay attention. Chances are, what you think means a lot to them, and you can be a good influence.

5. Be Careful About Boyfriends and Girlfriends

It's a good rule of thumb to stray away from dating the exes of your friends. It's an even better rule of thumb to avoid dating the people your friends have crushes on -- or people who have turned down your friends for dates. Even if your friend gives you the go-ahead, wait a while to get involved with someone who broke their heart or betrayed their confidence.

6. Return the Favour

There are times when a friend will lend you a jacket, a textbook or a shoulder to cry on. A good friend will pick you up when you're stuck in a rainstorm and listen patiently when you share a problem with them. Be sure that you're equally as generous with your time, your emotions and your possessions. People will take notice, and it's something to feel good about.

http://www.lovepoemsandquotes.com/FriendshipPoem07.html

http://teenadvice.about.com/od/friends/tp/friendship_rules.htm

Friendship (people)

A Friend's Greeting

I'd like to be the sort of friend that
you have been to me;
I'd like to be the help that
you've been always glad to be;

I'd like to mean as much to you
each minute of the day
As you have meant, old friend of mine,
to me along the way.

I'd like to do the big things and
the splendid things for you,
To brush the gray from out your skies
and leave them only blue;

I'd like to say the kindly things that
I so oft have heard,
And feel that I could rouse your soul
the way that mine you've stirred.

I'd like to give you back the joy
that you have given me,
Yet that were wishing you a need
I hope will never be;

I'd like to make you feel as rich as I,
who travel on
Undaunted in the darkest hours with you to
lean upon.

I'm wishing at this time that I
could but repay
A portion of the gladness that
you've strewn along my way;

And could I have one wish this year,
this only would it be:
I'd like to be the sort of friend
that you have been to me.

- Edgar A Guest –

GADGETS (science & technology)

G.A.D.G.E.T  =  GADGETS

Gadgets nowadays become something needed stuffs and always synonymous with teenagers. If we ask youngsters, of course the common one gadget that they will have is cell phone or IPod.  Malaysian teenagers tend to buy a new version gadget such as cell phones, lap tops, I Phone,  Wii, cameras  and etc.

Cameras/ DSLR

Laptops and notebooks

Wii

Do you know each gadget give advantages and disadvantages.

Advantages of modern gadgets to students:

Advantages

1. A faster way to search for information (via the Internet)
2. Sometimes a more effective way of learning. (via educational computer programs)
3. Prepares students for the globalized world where computer-literacy is a must.
4. Easier way of communication.
5. Helps students if they have difficulties (homework helpers, etc. )
6. More accessible.
7. Gives students recreation.
8. A larger information source.

Disadvantages:
1. Students tend to be lazy.
2. Computer games such as online games divert the students' attention from school.
3. Can be used for procrastination.
4. Distracts students from schoolwork.
5. Students lose interest in their schoolwork.

parents (value/people)

Having a positive relationship with your parents

As you grow up your relationship with your parents starts to change. You're growing into a young man or woman and your parents are also growing older. They still care for you but are probably having as much difficulty as you are in adapting to your changing relationship.

• You are no longer totally dependent on them and you want to become even more independent.
• They are still responsible for your welfare and are trying to use their experience to guide you.

As a result there is often conflict. How you all handle this conflict is really important. Your parents will always be your parents so work hard to communicate and be prepared to compromise.

Here are a few tips to maintain a positive relationship with the people who love you most in all the world.

• Be respectful when discussing any areas of disagreement.
• Be willing to listen to your parent's view.
• Stay calm.
• Be non-blaming, don't accuse.
• Stick to the issue - don't get side tracked into other areas.
• Use a team approach to working out problems - work at it together, think about what you both want in common and work out together how you can get there.
• Use a problem solving model like this one:
1. Decide together exactly what the problem is.
2. Brainstorm the possible solutions - be open and creative.
3. Think out the consequences of each possible solution.
4. Choose one idea and do it.
5. Did it work? If so, congratulate yourself and each other. If not, go back to step 2 and try another idea.

Try out the above ideas but it's hard to learn conflict resolution and problem solving just by reading it. See if someone can help you out face to face. http://www.cyh.com/HealthTopics/HealthTopicDetails.aspx?p=243&np=291&id=2230

Abandon Parents (value)





Monday July 27, 2009

Ministers lash out at children who abandon their aged parents

Reports by FOONG PEK YEE, SIRA HABIBU, HAMDAN RAJA ABDULLAH, LESTER KONG and YENG AI

 

KUALA LUMPUR: Stop the cruel act of abandoning old people, Women and Family Development Minister Datuk Seri Shahrizat Abdul Jalil said.
“Those who abandon their parents are being extremely cruel,” she said, adding that old people have feelings and would like to live with dignity throughout the remaining period of their lives.
“Those who really could not afford to care for the old folk should seek assistance from the nearest welfare offices.”
“Don’t simply abandon them in hospitals, or on the streets. Also don’t leave frail old people unattended to in homes,’’ she said.
Shahrizat said this when asked to comment on the growing number of old folk being dumped at hospitals and on the streets as highlighted in a Starprobe report yesterday.
“We do not want a culture of abandoning parents to thrive here. Just stop being cruel.
“People who abandon their aged parents should be prepared to experience the same nightmare during their twilight years,’’ she said.
MCA president Datuk Seri Ong Tee Keat called the act of abandoning one’s parents “pitiful”, and made a mockery of the Chinese community’s values of filial piety.
“It is indeed pitiful to note that there is such a phenomenon. It is contrasting to the traditional norms and values within the Chinese community because caring for parents is part and parcel of the obligations of the Chinese worldwide,” said Ong on the high number of old people being abandoned.
He said by legislating the act of caring for one’s parents, it was only ‘compulsive legislation’.
“Laws could only ensure that the parents are taken care of monetarily. Perhaps monthly dues to be paid to their parents,” he said after opening the Wangsa Maju MCA community education centre yesterday.
He said this in response to Health Minister Datuk Seri Liow Tiong Lai’s statement that having a law to compel children to take care of their aged parents should only be the last resort.
Liow was asked to comment on Singapore’s Maintenance of Parents Act 1996 which came with a jail term of up to six months.

Malaysian Culture (people)

Malaysian Culture: People

Malaysia is a country that is known for its rich and cultural heritage. Here, people strongly believe in respecting each other’s culture and religion. Here, one can find a good mix of Malay, Chinese and even Indian communities. The Malay people cover more than half of the population of Malaysia. As per the laws of the Malaysian Constitution, all Malays are basically Muslims and one can get a glimpse of the traditional Malay culture in the village areas.

The Malaysian culture also includes the Chinese and they were known to have adopted the Malaysian culture since the ancient days. With the practice of intermixed marriages there emerged a whole new group where the males were called as the babas and the females were known as the nyonyas. The Chinese therefore are the second largest group out here.

The Indians are the third largest group of people that form a major part of the Malaysian culture. The Indians had always visited Malaysia since the ancient days.

Thus we see how different races have formed a part of the culture of Malaysia. The unity in diversity can be seen in the celebration of various festivals by all races in Malaysia. Apart from this, there are also certain tribes that form the oldest inhabitants of Malaysia. This forms to be at least 5 percent of the total population.

Malaysian Culture: Lifestyle
The Malaysian culture shows a lot of modern influences that is seen in the western culture today. Today, we can see many influences even in the native families, which speak the English language and follow a modern culture. This does not mean that the Malaysians do not follow their customs and traditions. Today, young girls still use a piece of cloth that covers their head which is called as Tudung. Family values forms still have a strong foothold in the culture of Malaysia.

Malaysian Culture: Art and Handicrafts
A lot of influences can be seen in Malaysian art. External influences have made their presence felt in music, dancing and even literature apart from art. The traditional handicrafts of Malaysia include the textiles which are woven by the Punan tribes, basketwork, woodcarvings, patterned mats etc. The decorative art that belonged to the Malaysian art also includes batik cloth, which is dyed by hand with the help of a special technique.

http://www.buzzle.com/articles/culture-of-malaysia.html